My Daily Book of Life

Anyway of your life

2011-09-26T20:36:00.000-07:00

Most of people are often unreasonable and self-centered.

just forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of hidden motives.

just be kind anyway.

If you are honest, some of people may cheat you.

just be honest anyway.

If you find happiness, some of your friends may be jealous.

just be happy anyway.

The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow.

Do good anyway.

Just give the world the best you have and it may never be enough.

just give your best anyway.

For you see, in the end, it is between you and God.

Anyway, it was never between you and them anyway.

Friends-Relationship That Will Last.

2010-09-04T07:51:00.000-07:00

Most of people wanted to have a friendship, that it will last long.
Some of them or most of them cant get any it (friendship) from that. What to do.!!? We just lives in a complicated world. Very complicated life. However, nobody people is weird, just, is only u. weird !!.. hahaha.

You want to find out, what is secret?

1st,
Loyalty and trustworthy n your friendship.
-Good or True friends that never break a confidence or promise. A true friend or a good friend must be able to trust you with their thoughts, their fears and hopes, and lastly is, their secrets. Be sure to keep it safe with you.

2nd,
Equality.
-Get yourself in a healthy relationship, normally friends are equals.
Each has respect for the other.
Each is willing to give as well as take.
There is a balance to a real friendship that might helps each to become more than they were alone.

3nd,
-Transparency or invisible
Nobody friend can read people mind or another brains.
The person who withholds their thoughts from their friend and thinks "If you really liked me, you could read my mind" hahaha...
It will never achieve a satisfying friendship.. if U don't believe it, u can try it on. Be the 1st monkey.

However this 3 steps to friendship, as well as other ways to grow a friendship, are worth the investment of time and emotion. Depending, When, Where, How, Why, What. ^_^

Dont forget, friendship is a special gift for you., that you gonno have it now. ^_^

Tips on Friendship

2010-09-04T07:27:00.000-07:00

The most important is Communication.
This is the first step to start friendship. If i aren't mistaken. ^_^

Rule number 1 is Talking and talking with someone else
-Conversation that opens a window of knowledge between 2 people.
Deep, revealing conversation that opens a door to intimate friendship.
Bonds are formed as we risk sharing ourselves and trust that our confidences are safe with another. However, Be sure that you safe with your friends. i mean sharing to your friends.

Rule number 2 is become a good listener or listening.
-My need to be known to one, i seek as a friend is equaled by his desire or her desire to be known to me. And don't forget willingness is to be silent while another speaks is one of the first, and finest, and gifts of friendship.

Rule number 3 is stay attention on
-Listening is paying attention to the words had shared and every single words that they had transmitted to you. It means that your ears, your eyes, your body and your feelings are all must focused on that person. Be sure on that, Dont focus something else. Dont even look at your pretty friends. hahaha.. just kidding^_^. Just pay attention on it. ok.

Rule number 4 is learn how to accept, so called, acceptance.
-Friendships that have a chance to prosper, and never include trying to change the other person. They are strengthened by stressed out the positive things that drew us to each other. Both people in a healthy friendship will change as each learns from the other. ^_^

Since that, u had followed up all the rules.
Maybe u can try it on and apply the rules onto u 1st, before apply to your friends. hahaha

Long Time for a blog

2010-09-02T22:30:00.000-07:00

It has been for 3 month, i never spend time typing something or post something on the blog.

For the past 3 month, i was wondering around my holiday. spending with my friends (holiday), worked, Home, home stalker ( Kind of bored) ^_^, and Friends stalker too.

Gosh!! Talking about friends stalker, called suck..huhu. unusual or special to mixed with them at night. Normally Friends, ask u go to out for yam cha.. ( is to be happy. hahaha) and u wont get any worried for that.

But instead, they bring you for ""happy hour"". hahaha.. ^_^
U know what they said: Release stress boss, No worry, cash is on me!!

I was wondering that, maybe i m dreaming d.. and goonno have a wild night with my friends.

At night, i was spending my time with my friends, drink n drinking, dunno until what time. haha
Juz thought that, the nite is still young d.

Anyway,I had pray, hope that nothing happen to me. (Alwaz do the right thing in ur life time)

To conclude it, I should skip that topic., need to figure out what to write or type in the blog. hahaha..

Think and Thinking and thinking...and....

Life-Be thankful

2010-05-28T08:40:00.000-07:00

What is life?
Some people say "Life is a gift from god",
Some people say "Life is a game to enjoy",
Some people say "Life is there to have fun",

But what is it really?
Everybody try to find a satisfactory explanation,
Everybody search proofs to be confirmed,
But nobody can say definitely what life is,

Is life useful?
Some people live their life to have fun,
Some people live their life to die for others,
Some people live their life to fight for a better life,

But what is really going on?
Some people waste their lifetime,
Some people kill their fellows,
Some people don’t know what to do with their life,

What is the meaning of life?
Life is valuable and precious,
Life is irreplaceable,
Life is only once,

Life should be use careful,
Life should be use wise,
Life should be use as a big gift.

LifeTime-Hope and loss

2010-05-28T08:36:00.000-07:00

Wasting a lifetime
Trying to find love
Nothing happens
No hope, no girl

Suddenly see her
But ten years before
Can't do anything
Used to be friends, nothing more

Now realized affection
Can go no further
Lost a lifetime
And lost desire

Try to forget
But can't
Try to die
But don't

Mind suddenly gone
No end is near
Nothing to do now
But go on

For Brother and Sister

2010-03-14T08:48:00.000-07:00

For Sister
"Sisters is probably the most competitive relationship within the family, but once sisters are grown, it becomes the strongest relationship."
-Margaret Meed

"A sister is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread to the meaning of life."
-Isadora JameS

"Chance made us Sisters, hearts made us friends."
-Author Unknown

"A sister is a little bit of childhood that can never be lost."
-Marion C. Garretty

"My sisters have taught me how to live."
-George Wasserstein

For Brother
Sometimes being a brother is even better than being a superhero. -Marc Brown

A brother shares childhood memories and grown-up dreams.-Author Unknown

A brother is a friend given by Nature.-Jean Baptiste Legouve

It was nice growing up with someone like you - someone to lean on, someone to count on... someone to tell on! -Author Unknown

All for one and one for all
My brother and my friend
What fun we have
The time we share
Brothers 'til the end.
-Author Unknown

Friendships

2010-03-05T22:06:00.000-08:00

Friendship is comfortable and relaxed.
Friendship requires meeting the needs of both friends.

Friendships may not last. Friendships can lose importance and die gradually.
Some friendships end abruptly with unresolved conflict.
The worst enemy of friendships is change by one or both friends.
There is usually pain with the loss of friendship.

Friendships as well as all other relationships must have limits.
You set limits with your friends because you care for them and your relationship with them, not because you don't.

Building friendships takes time
Friendships require equality and loyalty from friends.

Not all friendships are good for you.

life so complicated

2010-03-05T21:56:00.000-08:00

why is life so complicated
why does everything need to be so messy.
why cant life be simple
why do people need to like do what they want even if it would hurt someone why do people say things they dont really mean but still say them or if they do mean them
why do they need to say it
if you know someone is getting away from you and your loosing contact with that person then what. what if someone you like does not notice you.
what you do if when you look back you dont know where your at no more.you dont know the last time you had a good time with your family and friends with no fights.

Why did we make it so hard, this life is so complicated until we see it through the eyes of a person, such baby, child, boy and gurl, man and woman..

Try Not 2Lose Your Girlfriend

2010-02-17T04:24:00.000-08:00

Rule 1: Communicate
you have to respect her thoughts,always listen to what she says.

-CooL, i alwaz respect her, but the only things, i doesn't have any chance to share and listen from her. No matter what,we need a time and space for relationship.

Rule 2:Respect her through listening and show her how much you care for her.

- Respect her is good,no matter what, i always care for her. but i don't know that how is she feel, and how much that i care for her

Rule 3: Work out your problems
In real relationships saying sorry is considered an act of war.
Solve the problem alone, you need to talk to solve it.

-I tried to but i don't know ether working or not. but i still manage to keep it

Rule 4: Know everything about her
If she asks you to get her something, you should be asking "How much?" and not "What kind?".
-Don't be quite only
-Ooh OK. I'll still working out on it

Rule 5: Be honest or Do all that you ever can to never lie to your girl, and if you do, own up to it immediately.

-If i truly love someone, you cannot hide a lie; you will feel terribly guilty, and when (not if) she finds out, everything you have ever told her is called into question---even "I love you."

Rule 6: Ask yourself, "Why do I still want to flirt with other girls while in this relationship?

-Hmmmm..... If i believe that my girlfriend is Ms. Right, then she should be my number one life priority: I care for her as i care for my own self.
If my girlfriend is indeed Ms. Right, then she'll eventually do the same for you.

Be the Man for Your Girlfriend

2010-02-17T03:53:00.000-08:00

1 Step:
We should be protective, but no over protective
-Make sure that your girlfriend feel, you would do anything to make sure she is safe.
-But Dont do; who did you see today, who did you talk to, where did you go?, kind of thing that related

2 Step:
Said a Word very sweet
-Any day or any time, you can try to say the words; I just don't want you to get hurt, or
something equally as caring or sweet, just go for it.
Gosh:) i still working out of that..i m poor of that

3 Step:
Try be Be sweet, but also courageous.
Women love a man who is sweet
but can be the hero that saves her life. :-) but make sure your life also save

4 Step:
Don't get annoying when she wants you to meet all her friends,
keep your arms/hands on her
Notice: It will make her feel good to know that you are not embarrassed by her, you are proud to be her boyfriend)

5 Step:
Try 2Be romantic.
Be the first to kiss her, don't make her kiss you...unless she just does it.^^

6Step:
Try Be as confident as you can
women love confident men
But still, don't take it too far.
if you too Over confident, They will find you arrogant and egotistic.
Notice: dun be too Ego!!

7Step:
Make sure you tell her you love her
if you tell her you love her once in a while, she will smile, and smiling is a good sign.
Note: If she doesn't smile, then you going to be dead

Just advice for your all:
Not all women are the same, so not all women would enjoy having a boyfriend who acts this way. If your girlfriend doesn't respond well to these steps, stop and try something else!

So, Just to Remember to be yourself.

Friends last forEver

2010-01-04T06:23:00.000-08:00

Sometimes in life, you find a special friend;
Someone who changes your life by being a part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh until you can’t stop;
Someone who makes you believe that there is really good in this world.

Your Forever Friend gets you through the hard times,
and the sad times, and the confused times.

If you turn and walk away your Forever Friend follows.
If you lose your way, your Forever Friend guides you and cheers you on.

Your Forever Friend holds your hand
and tells you that everything is going to be a-okay.
And when you find such a Friend, you’ll feel happy and complete,

Building memories that will last a life time.
The Crazy times and laughter that we have shared
Happy memories that will always be there.

Because my Friends
Are the only ones I will ever need,
I don’t know if they can tell
Just how much they mean to me

How important their friendship is,
And how much I care,
For they are what true friendship is about.
They’re there when I need them,
And I love them all.muhahahaha…
because you need not worry.

You Have A “Forever Friend” For Life
and Forever has No end.

Choose a Real Real Friends

2010-01-04T06:22:00.000-08:00

Sweet words are easy to say,
Sweet things are easy 2 buy,
But sweet people are difficult to find.

Life ends when U stop dreaming,
Hope ends when U stop believing,
Love ends when U stop caring,
Friendship ends when U stop sharing.
So share this with whom ever U
consider a friend.

To love without condition,
To talk without intention,
To give without reason,
And to care without expectation
is the heart of a truefriend…

Night speechless

2010-01-04T05:47:00.000-08:00

Blur n speechless, at night,
Try u image that ur mind is blank, nothing else to think, nothing else to say n nothing else to write.
what u should do during that time?, are u goin turn into blur, crazy, bcome more stupid.
Hmm…cannot be say like de.we jux temporarily deprived of speech by strong emotion, physical weakness, exhaustion or something.
Try find any story to make u more comformtable, or any subject are related to u; most suitable for you. it might be help or solve for u. May be , something new for you like now..
right now, i also dun know wat 2 write here oldy
completely blur n dun know where should i start^^

Never mind, i jux End this story here.
Thx for reading it. i Hope that u enjoy and follow me blur also..
hahahaha\!!!!

My Research of frens

2009-08-16T22:10:00.000-07:00

Friendships are the most important relationship we can have. Even all of us have a family, but most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration. Friendships are much needed in our life but it also opens the door for hurt and harm and harmful friend can be one of life’s hardest relationship tribulations to forgive and forget. It is risky to find a true friendship because friend is human. They are change. Some friends may betrayed you from the start and others may turn into betrayers because of what’s going on in their life can change their personality. You may not want to involved further with this type of friendship so, recognize this type of toxic friend before it harm you,

Toxic #1 The User
This person only stay beside you as a friend as long as he/she can use you for some purpose or goal of his/her own. This person could be the most harmful of toxic friend.

Toxic #2 The Betrayer
It’s unbelievable the one you trust stab your back. Nothing more hurt than a friend who betrays your trust.

Toxic #3 The Promise Breaker
This kind of person rarely does what he/she promises to do. If you have a date, your toxic friend is often no-show. A general lack of dependability makes this person a toxic friend.

Toxic #4 The Control Freak
The control freak is a friend as long as she/he is in control. The control freak often seems to be helping you. Refuse that help or break that control and find out what toxic friendship really means.

Toxic #5 The Gossip
Gossip will eventually betray your trust. This happen maybe because of jealousy factor. Gossips are easy to spot, so beware your friendship with them earlier.

Toxic #6 The Judge
Ever judgmental, ever critical, this friend can erode your self-esteem. You can rarely do thing completely right with this toxic friend.

Toxic #7 The Competitor
An appropriate amount of competition between friends is healthy, will motivate and stimulate but if there’s too much competition will start to destroy the relationship. The competitor is always looking to be one up. Be careful because it makes a toxic friend.

Toxic #8 The Self-Centered Person
This person never thing about you or others because they are too busy thinking of themselves. Beware! Because whatever happen, her herself is priority.

Toxic #9 The Leaner
The leaner is a very needy friend who clings and may be at your doorstep every day. He/she usually wants all of your time and jealousy often enters the picture in this friendship.

It’s not easy to live in this complicated world. Sometimes we have to accept the way it one to be just for peace and just makes things down to earth and your life will more easier. Remember, sometimes things happen not always like what we want it to be. You make mistake so do others. And sometimes life should be accused. What say you?

A friends

2009-08-15T18:34:00.000-07:00

Everyone wants a true friend, someone you can trust, share mind and though together without worrying about what others will think.
A true friend will understand your needs, trust you and will be with you without any analysis or criticism.
Whenever you need support, her/him is always there for you and always come forward to help you without any request or expecting anything in return. True friends never break a confidence

where you can trust with your secrets, both large and small.
Can you be a true friend? Are your good friend now is your true friend? What if the one you ever trust betray your confidence?

Motivation For ur ALL

2009-08-15T10:01:00.000-07:00

Motivating yourself is an important attribute in student success. You will take control of your learning when you begin motivational techniques.

You need to go ahead and study some every day. Don’t get so behind that you have to read the entire book before a test. A little studying every day will make a huge difference. Whenever your Lecture gives you an assignment, go ahead and work out an outline or a plan that evening. It is best not to put the paper away until the assignment is due. Get familiar with the assignment and find out what you have to have to complete it.

Realise what makes you want to study. You may want to learn the subject, or you may want to earn a degree or Diploma. You need to know what is driving you forward. The best motivator is yourself. If you understand why you want something, then you will become more focused on attaining it.

It helps to put all your assignments into smaller segments and set goals as to when to finish. Every time you study, have a small goal – read five pages, write three paragraphs – to get done during that session. By separating the overall assignment into smaller bits, you will feel that you have accomplished something and want to do more.

The most important motivational force is going ahead and doing something with the task at hand. Don’t procrastinate. Accomplishing a small goal will make you feel better. When you finish one task, go ahead and put down your goals so you will be focused for the next task.

Sometimes it helps to have a mentor, a faculty member or a friend with whom to discuss your work. A third person can point out what you have accomplished and encourage you to do more; make sure find the right person

To My Frens

2009-08-15T09:52:00.000-07:00

When I think of all the times we’ve shared from the silly to the sad

You’ve been the greatest friend to me through good times and through bad.
We love to get crazy from time to time,that’s what friends are supposed to do but when times get rough,there is never a doubt that I can count on you.
We have the kind of friendship that endures till the very end
Because I can’t imagine my life without you all-
My Best and Forever Friends that i close wth theM.